Custom Healing Boxes
Our Custom Healing Boxes are lovingly donated by our foundation to Intended Parents and Surrogates who have experienced pregnancy or infant loss. Designed with the unique grief of third-party reproduction in mind, these boxes offer comfort, remembrance, and tools for healing — right when they’re needed most.
We donate these boxes directly to hospitals for distribution at the time of loss, with special care given to the distinct experiences of both Intended Parents and Gestational Carriers. As founders who have lived through this kind of loss, we know how painful it is to walk out of the hospital with empty arms and no roadmap for what comes next. These boxes are our way of saying: You are not alone. There is support, even in this.
Each box includes thoughtful, trauma-informed items designed to meet families in their grief. They are customized depending on whether the recipient is an Intended Parent or a Surrogate.
🤍 For Intended Parents
A tender reminder that your grief is valid — even without the physical markers of pregnancy.
Each IP box may include:
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🧸 Teddy Bear (when still at the hospital): So you're not leaving empty-handed.
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📖 Loved Baby Devotional Book: 31 devotions helping you grieve
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📔 Letters To My Baby In Heaven: A space to reflect, mourn, and breathe.
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📕 Taking it Day by Day: A bereavement diary with daily writing prompts and space for remembrance
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🖍️ Healing Coloring Journal and colored pencils
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💌 Letter from Our Founder: Words from someone who’s walked this same path.
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📚 Children’s Book: Our Angel Gave Us Our Angel: To help explain loss to other children in the family.
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🖊️ Pen Pouch with Gel Pens
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🗝️ Symbolic Keychains: A quiet reminder of hope and resilience (for each parent).
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📿 “Be The Reason” Bracelet: Let us know if you'd like one for each parent — a symbol of remembrance and purpose.
💗 For Surrogates
Grieving not only the baby but also the experience, identity, and the deep emotional labor of carrying for someone else.
Each GC/Surro box may include:
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📔 How to Carry What Can’t Be Fixed: A grief workbook written just for losses like yours.
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📘 Your Grief, Your Way: Gentle wisdom to guide your healing.
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📕 Taking it Day by Day: A bereavement diary with daily writing prompts and space for remembrance
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💌 Letter from Our Founder: So you know you're not alone in this pain.
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📚 Children’s Book: Our Angel Gave Us Our Angel: For explaining loss to young ones in your life.
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🖊️ Pen Pouch with Gel Pens
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🗝️ Symbolic Keychains: A quiet reminder of hope and resilience.
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📿 “Be The Reason” Bracelet: A symbol of strength and compassion.
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🍼 Breast Milk Donation Resources: Information for those who want to explore this path as part of their healing.
Why These Boxes Matter
We know this loss isn’t the same as a naturally conceived pregnancy. Surrogacy grief comes with unique layers: guilt, identity, distance, and confusion. These boxes are designed with those nuances in mind — because we’ve lived them too. Whether you carried the baby or waited to welcome them home, your grief deserves to be honored with care and compassion.
Each box includes a “Be The Reason” bracelet — a small but powerful symbol of purpose in the pain. We hope it reminds you:
In time..maybe you can Be the Reason someone else feels less alone.
Be the Reason for change.
Be the Reason for hope.
Be the Reason your baby looks down with pride.
