Why We Exist
"We both lost a child—and in the depths of that grief, this foundation was born."
– Kristin McQuaid, London's Mother & Founder
You’re not alone in this type of loss. We’re here because we’ve lived it too. When infant loss occurs in a surrogacy journey, it brings complex emotions—grief, guilt, confusion, and often isolation. Intended parents face the devastation of losing a child they had longed and planned for, while surrogates may carry guilt and self-blame for something beyond their control. Our foundation's purpose is to bridge that gap because there are few, if any, resources that speak to this dual grief. Grief after surrogacy loss is often overlooked. We’re here to change that. Our mission is to create a safe space where both sides can share, heal, and be seen because both sides matter.
Who is London?
London Quinn Dixon was born sleeping in July 2021, wrapped in a custom angel dress and lavender blanket. Though her time on earth was brief, her impact is everlasting. London Is The Reason was founded in her honor—to offer support, compassion, and community to those navigating infant loss, surrogacy loss, and infertility. Her presence lives on in every life touched through this work.
Our Resources
From healing boxes and 1:1 peer support to grief education, London Is The Reason offers meaningful support for parents and surrogates navigating infant and pregnancy loss.
Ways You Can Help
Help us bring comfort, visibility, and care to families navigating the unimaginable. From peer support to partnerships, every offering is powered by generosity & the belief that grief should never be faced alone.
TESTIMONIALS
When our GC went in for the anatomy scan, I received the worst phone call in my life where I was told that there was no heartbeat…No explanation. Nothing. She was dead. The pain that I felt for the first few weeks is impossible to describe. I was gutted. Dead inside. My entire body ached for my baby. I felt (and still sometimes feel) like the unluckiest person on earth. How could this have happened to me? And now I’m supposed to continue with my life? Pretend that this didn’t happen?
There was no light at the end of the tunnel. And then I met Kristin. Someone on Reddit suggested that I message her. She called me the next day and we talked for a while. It was the best thing that had happened to me since my baby’s death. Kristin knew what I was going through. She understood it. Then I received the healing box. I knew that I wasn’t alone in this anymore. Kristin was (and still is) only a text away when I had a question or needed a pep talk. I’m proud of the fact that I’m getting better every day. Two things have kept me alive in this process: 1. my son and 2. Kristin and London. I’m forever thankful.
ANONYMOUS, INTENDED PARENT
Nothing prepares you for this moment. The thought never even enters your mind. How could this happen? I need to wake up from this nightmare. After successfully delivering two healthy children of my own and completing a successful surrogate journey, I was suddenly thrust into a world of loneliness, despair, guilt, and unimaginable grief. I needed to find solace, something—or someone—to relate to. I am so utterly thankful for London is the Reason. If it weren’t for her story and the impact she’s had on this earth, I wouldn’t be here today. She allowed me to rediscover who I am, only as a better version of myself
KATY CLELAND, 2X SURROGATE